Well, at this point i can say i’m deeply in love with a beautiful girl, but here’s
the story: You all know how it all started, last time i wrote i said i was going
to ask her out so i did, one day i took my guts and just ask her out; she said
no, but i guess i put my sad and depressed face ‘cause after a few seconds
she told me we could go out another time (that day she couldn’t ‘cause she
had to finish a project for the next day).
So i didn’t see her for a long time (well, for 3 or 4 days, LOL) and then there was this party on friday night
where i knew she was going to be. I decided to show up but i didn’t see her
anywhere, when it was almost midnight she arrived with 2 friends, i’m
guessing a straight couple ‘cause they let her ALONE, so i made my move and
ended up right next to her.
We were together untill 4 in the morning and i
was so excited that i came out, i said to her: “ok, i have to say this, i really
like you and i don’t know how you’re going to react but i need to know if i
have any chance” after those words i expected the worst, my heart almost
stoped and my head was spinnig round and round, she just said: “well, i
kinda knew how you feel about me, i’m really flattered but i don’t know what
The minutes that followed those words were really relaxing, she
told me she’s been single for almost a year and that her last relation kept her
depressed for a long time (and guess what, it’s a she-ex, she’s gay too!!!!),
she told me she’s scared of a new relation with anybody but that she liked me
(well, likes me still, LOL). At that time i was so out that i asked her if she
wanted to go to a place more quiet to discuss the item so she ask me to drive
We were outside her house talking in the car when she said
goodbye, i hurried to open the door and when she was steping out i trapped
her between the car and me, i told her she’s beautiful and that i would never
hurt her but i was going to wait untill she’s ready, she smiled in the most
tender way i’ve ever seen and i kissed her (i could’t help myself!!!!), i have to
tell you it was the best kiss i’ve ever given, i took her face with both hands
and she took me by my shoulders (she’s shorter than me) i felt i was in
heaven. I asked her if i could call her later but she said no so for the entire
weekend i was desperate but i didn’t call.
On monday we saw each other and
talked, she told me that she really likes me and wants to be with me, but that
she needs to know me better. We’re getting to know each other right now,
but i feel this huge need to hold her and kiss her……….how much do i have to
wait??????? i think i’ve waited too much and i just want to be with her, what
do i do??????? P.S. Another question, why is that i write my story with spaces
and at the end it shows like i never gave an enter??!!
RE: Please help me……….
the easy question:
The coolboard entry system seems to be like a unformatted notebook (maybe
you need to put in HTML codes like – otherwise it just condenses the text,
regardless of how people type. try three hard returns, see if that
makes paragraphs – with longer posts, it would help. I’m gonna put
three in and see if it works:
Okay, so, you got to The Girl and she’s a dyke. And even better, she
likes you too. But, you really really really need to listen to what’s she
saying – which is: she got burned in a past relationship that she’s not
quite over yet (either the ex or the way their relationship broke up).
So, if you want anything to start and last with this girl, you need to
RELAX and put the brakes on – just a bit. And the girl will be yours.
(at least she appears to be willing)
You’ve made the contact, you’ve made the connection, she’s
interested too, and now you need to breath and let her adjust to the
idea of starting a new relationship.
You need to move slowly, and build up a knowledge base and comfort
level with each other.
I know you think she’s hot, she’s a dream, and your heart’s desire is
to jump right into sex, but she’s not ready yet.
Maybe she has some intimacy issues, maybe she still has a thing for
her ex, maybe her last relationship started really fast and burned out,
and she’s looking for something that will last and wants to develop a
So, what you need to do, now that you’ve got her attention, is let her
do a little chasing too. Give her your phone number, go out on some
dates, talk, and most of all, listen to her. Tell her about yourself, that
you’re a fun person with a lot of interests, be funny, charming,
but you don’t need to be there every day
don’t always be the one to initiate the contact, dates, get togethers.
Don’t hover and be omnipresent in her life,
There’s a fine line between being a suitor and a stalker. Be careful to
stay in the first category.
Show her you’re interested in her as a person, that you are interested
in her past life, her future plans, her family & friends, that it’s not just
a physical thing – I assure you – it’s a turn on it is to be treated as a
whole person, and not just a body.
Most importantly, be a whole person yourself, make sure you don’t
neglect your studies, your friends and family and hobbies.
It’s hard to do, and us lesbians tend to want to just merge and melt
into each other – a sort of fusion – at the begining of a relationship,
but, you’ll need to resist this tendancy.
Okay, enough rambling – be patient, be gentle and the girl will be