Flirting With Lesbians….and more

Archive for March, 2012


I am a lesbian and a science fiction geek, both at the same time.

I wrote this story on a fan site that I created in 2004:


I used to go to a weekly social gathering of the British Columbia Science Fiction Fan Association called FRED. If you were polite, and most weren’t, it stood for: 

Forget Reality–Enjoy Drinking.

As a new female to the group, I was the subject of some discussion and finally, one lone male ventured towards the group of gals I was sitting with and  hit on me. At the time, the early 90’s, there seemed to be only two pick up lines– “Can I rub your back?” and “Which do you like better, Classic or NextGen?”

The sacrificial male used the latter. Not ever having been particularly interested in the Star Trek universe, I said brightly “V.”

Flirtation forgotten, the guy recoiled in horror, sputtering, “The only thing that you could have said that would have been worse would be-”

“Battlestar Galactica?” I said, sipping my drink.

I didn’t get hit on for quite a long time after that.


My favorite famous lesbros are


And my two favorite lesbros in my life are the owners of these local Vancouver, BC, Canada businesses.




Boobquake 2012, brought to you, by the letter: Q

Now, with all the political upheavals and all the zero sum trying to control women’s vaginas….

There’s something that I want to say to each and every single Heterosexual Woman out there on the internet who have showed their boobs or just showed off their boobs.


For Bis and Gals of all genders


Women of the world and in the blogoshpere:

If you aren’t being flirted with – at least as good as Lesbian Flirting 101


And, if you are being flirted with, at least as good as LezFlirt 101

Then, maybe you should take a look at Lesbian Flirting 201


Heterosexual Vaginas Monolog while Lesbian Vaginas Dialog


and ladies, I am not flirting with anyone, because I am a very happily married lesbian, because I live in Canada, where gays were legally deemed common law in 2000 and legal marriage became the law of the land in 2003.


The reason why same gender marriage had to become legal in Canada is because, well, we are a nation of three ancestral paths.

And across Canada, British Common Law applies, except for in Quebec.

Quebec is based on the Napoleonic code, which does not recognize common law marriage and Quebec was one of the first provinces to challenge the Canadian Federal Law.

So, in a way, gay marriage is what’s keeping Canada together as a nation, because, you probably don’t know from the outside, just how divided that Canada has become.

And my spouse and I had talked about not needing a piece of paper and we were really feeling run down about America and religious people being against gay marriage, that we talked about giving up that piece of paper.

But, we’re not going to, because, that might be just a peice of paper to a lot of married people, given the divorce rate. I am sorry, heterosexuals, seriously, what’s left for gays and lesbians and bis and trans people to ruin about marriage, exactly?


Our marriage license is our bond, our word and our shield.

So, I am not flirting with anyone who reads this blog.

And this morning, I got my spouse to take my picture and I am going to show you, just how happy that I am with my life.


And; there’s a few very particular women, that I would like to introduce to every single reader of this post.

Collectively, they are referred to as The Suffragettes


Basically, they were the women all over the world who demanded equality and the right to vote on the basis of this very simple premise.


No vote? no sex, so suffer.


And men, did not like that option, so women got to vote.

An important life lesson is that if you do not know history, you are doomed to repeat it into infinity.






Nina's Garden

While I am a happily married lesbian now, it wasn’t always the case. My early romances were, well, all over the map. But, I wouldn’t trade that crush on any woman who happened along phase for anything – it was an exciting if exhausting time.

And, I learned a lot. Not just naughty stuff, but about people and life.

My first rule for potential relationships is never fall in love with anyone who’s already in love with someone straight, dead or else.

There is an unease in the gay community about bisexuals – partly fear and partly jealousy. Or at least, when I came out in the 90’s there was, I can only hope it’s not so much now.

But mostly because we were jealous that bisexuals could access straight privilege and afraid to be left by them for an opposite gender person – being left for another woman would…

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Little Ms. Sunshine


I hope that you, dearest readers, have enjoyed


Advanced Lesbian Flirting 201

Hetero Vaginas Monolog, Lesbian Vaginas Dialog

Janis Ian – when people thought she was straight

and once again, after she came out

Leslie Gore, ditto

kd lang




Favorite Lebian Movies & TV Shows

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